You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control how you frame it.
The GOAT (greatest of all time) of reframing was the apostle Paul. Paul had a strategic plan for advancing the gospel—go to Rome.
If he could get to Rome and preach Jesus to the leaders there, the city could become a launchpad to spread the gospel all over the world.
When Paul finally got to Rome, it was not to share Jesus with government officials. He went there as a prisoner. He was locked up under house arrest, chained